Hi, I am so lost now. My AN D lost 4 pounds in past 3 months which is below her minimum safe range of weight. Her doctor suggested us to add two extra items in her meals such as hummus and cream cheese. Others the Dr. told us to discuss with D’s dietician. I know only adding some hummus and cream cheese is far less than what D needs to make up her lost. Because I added 330 calories in her rice each day when she was school before covid-19. But now since she is no school all time, I am unable to add anything in her meals. I tried several times and one time she saw it. She’s so upset to me and does not trust me any more. She said only food prepares by her father she trusts in. Unfortunately H is not convinced to add any high calories in D’s meals and he really is not good at it. D said she would accept to have more intake if the meal plan is proposed by the dietician. Before the dietician responded me D search on internet and delivered me a menu which was from South London and Musley. D said the target of this menu is 0.5 kg/day. I asked my questions in this forum about this menu last week and I realized it’s so tricky. I decided to give up this menu and follow our current meal plan now. D was very upset at the beginning but finally she agreed to follow ours and accepted to take extra hummus and cream cheese. I know D is very stressful these days but I believe this is a good chance to adjust her meal plan and increase her intake in meals. Since she said only accepts if the dietician says it. I talked with the dietician and told her that I believe D needs to have more 500 calories a day now. I told her D said she’s fine to follow the Hospital ‘s nutrition guideline when she’s inpatient before. Besides, I told her D starts to sneak exercise in her room now under her lower weight. Today the dietician responded me that she considered a good way is that we should increase D’s intake slowly based on our current meals instead of more changes. I am totally lost. D’s weight is quite low. Isn’t the essential solution to deliver her more food and more calories as much as we can? I can’t convince D to take my opinions now and I do hope the dietician could give her reasons to have changes immediately. Am I wrong? Anybody has some advice? Really appreciate for all of your opinions!