A couple months ago I posted about my 12 year old daughter and her disordered eating habits. Thank you to all those that responded and gave me some great advice. I kind of needed a kick in the butt to admit that it was definitely turning into an eating disorder. She has started seeing a dietician and therapist every two weeks at a very well respected eating disorder clinic in our area. I love both the dietician and therapist but things haven’t been going as well as I had hoped. She’s still losing weight. She’s not under weight but has gone from 130lbs to 118lbs. Each time we go in the dietician has said “no more weight loss”. Yesterday I think they decided to get tough with her. Her dietician said “Do we need to pull all exercise? Do you want to start Intensive Outpatient and be here 3x a week? That’s where we are headed”. She is an athlete and does not over exercise which is why they haven’t told her she can’t but if they take that away she will have nothing fun in her life. I’m hoping this really hit home and it will see her adjust. During the dietician appointment my daughter said “Once the full soccer season starts I will know if I’m being unhealthy because if I play horribly and have no endurance then I know I will have to adjust”. Health wise she is still fine, mental health wise she is still not ok. Some days she eats a ton then some days she restricts. I just don’t know what to do anymore. All she keeps saying during the appointments is she’s just trying to eat healthy. Any input or suggestions? Could the dietician and therapist actually be causing more harm than good?