F.E.A.S.T's Around The Dinner Table forum

Welcome to F.E.A.S.T's Around The Dinner Table forum. This is a free service provided for parents of those suffering from eating disorders. It is moderated by kind, experienced, parent caregivers trained to guide you in how to use the forum and how to find resources to help you support your family member. This forum is for parents of patients with all eating disorder diagnoses, all ages, around the world.

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This inspirational blog post from the F.E.A.S.T. main site is the latest in a number of 'lived experience' blog posts.  It is written by the daughter of one of F.E.A.S.T.'s board members and is published with her permission.

I think it will give all parents/carers HOPE while they are struggling right now, and especially if they are asking whether ED will ruin the relationship with their kid forever.  I would have loved to have read this when we were in the 'dark days'.

Thanks so much Kinsey for writing these powerful words!
It is good to not only hope to be successful, but to expect it and accept it--Maya Angelou
Love.  So much truth here.  It is very hard to be "in the moment" when your child is swearing they will hate you forever.  Very hard.  Many nights, I cried myself to sleep wondering what the heck I was doing, and whether the damage was irreparable.  I swear to you, it is not.  Your child WILL come back.  Mine did.  And our relationship today is fantastic.  Heck, it might even be BETTER than it otherwise would have been without anorexia.  Anorexia taught me to be a better parent.  It made me appreciate the small things in life. To let go of things which didn't matter.  To love my child....no matter what...and really understand what that means.

Hang in there parents!  Keep up the hard, hard work.
D, age 18, first diagnosed March 20, 2013, RAN, at age 13 Hospitalized 3 weeks for medical stability. FBT at home since.  UCSD Multi-family Intensive June 2015. We've arrived on the other side.  :-)  D at college and doing great!